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What’s the best way to find the bride you are looking for?

First of all, of course, you need to register on the site. And photos speak 1000 words, so make sure you do that bit properly – get some good pictures taken with a proper camera (not low-resolution mobile phone pictures).

Be active here. Russian women like confidence and energy in a man. Keep communication going. Write letters – 40 or 50, or more. The more you communicate, the quicker you’ll find that special person who you can be comfortable with, and maybe marry!

Feel free to talk to lots of Russian Brides. There’s nothing wrong with communicating with several girls at the same time. You’re dating Russian women – find the right date – that one that talk is just effortless with, and who you know you want to talk to more.

Lots of short letters beat a few long ones – it’s closer to free and natural conversation, and as soon as you know you want to talk more, ask for a phone number. Written messages are great, but you really can’t beat true conversation.

Show interest. Everybody likes to know that somebody is interested in them. Get to know about the things that are important to your Russian Brides (Ukrainian brides). Marriage, family, relationships, children.

When you know you’ve found a girl who you want to see, then do it. Don’t waste time – that’s just back-peddling. Come to Russia. Meet your girl. Be romantic. Stay with her in a hotel, then when it feels right, stay with her at her place.

And if you had a fantastic time, don’t dawdle – arrange to meet her again. You’re here to find a bride. Marry her!

How to be successful in dating Russian Brides – 5 steps

1. Assess precisely what it is you are looking for in your Russian bride-to-be.

If you’re utterly clear on that, and if you’re realistic about your expectations, then you can expect to be successful much more quickly. What do you absolutely require? What are you willing to compromise on? What’s most important to you? Looks? Intelligence? Children? Profession? Or are none of these important, so long as the magic is there? Be realistic. Know what you want, and you will find it.

2. Consider what the woman would want from you.

Think about her expectations. The life she is used to, what she might compromise on and what she might not. A considerate man is perhaps one of the most attractive characteristics. And it’s the way to a real loving, lifelong relationship. Some UK men might think that simply helping a woman move to the UK is enough – and for some Russian women, that is very attractive, but is that the sort of woman you want? Building a relationship is about how you and her get on. Luckily, for most Russian Brides (Ukraine brides), that is the number one priority.

3. Create a virtual image for yourself.

Remember that when you’re communicating with someone over the Internet, you can’t experience that person and the way the two of you get on to the absolute full. That’s why we encourage you to talk on the phone, and to meet up. But it’s equally important that you express yourself fully on the net – so your girl gets a real understanding of who you are. When you talk, feel free. Russian Brides will see the true you. Your profile is important, as are your letters. You can be romantic, funny, energetic, intellectual. Show that girl who you are. Show her the real true positive side. That way you can get to know much more quickly if you should meet up. And it’s that energy that you inject at the initial stages that will really help build a rapport – the true foundations of a relationship.

4. Maximise your chances for early success.

Talk to lots of Russian girls. Send lots of letters and postcards. Be the one to show initiative. Be energetic. The more Russian women that you give your attention, the quicker you will find that very special girl to spend the rest of your life with. There’s no time like the present. Life is too short to waste time. Find that girl. Ask for her phone number. Meet her. Fall in love.

5. Don’t give up!

You might not be successful first time with that girl who seemed just right. But you are here to find a wife. That means it must work for both of you and if she found a different guy, then so be it. Keep looking. Keep communicating. Relationships are complex things. You know that from all your previous encounters. The fact that you’re using Russian Brides, means that the search is more fruitful, but it doesn’t mean that you’ll be successful straight away. The most important thing is your attitude, and one of the most important aspects of your attitude is your refusal to give up!

Scammers and their common methods

Many Russian women are beautiful, that is true. But something that appears just too good to be true, may be too good to be true. If you see a photograph that looks like it’s been taken by a professional photographer, then that’s a telltale sign.

Scammers know that we’re looking out for them. They might want you to leave the site and communicate through personal email at a very early stage. Be aware.

She’s keen to communicate over the net, but she doesn’t want to give you her phone number. Perhaps she says she doesn’t have a phone. This is a very strong sign. You should be very wary of this.

She may profess her love for you at a stage that seems way too early – perhaps even within the first two or three letters. The reality is that things take longer to build than this. Be aware of this.

Now "she" tells you that she wants to come and visit you. She might tell you the story of how her friend found her soul-mate in the UK and that she really thinks you should meet soon. She’d like to spend time with you in the UK. And she needs money for the ticket. She might even tell you she has some money, but not enough to go to Moscow, and then on to the UK. This is of course what the scam is really about: it’s about getting money out of you, and at the end of it there is no Russian Bride.

This really is rare, and we have people watching out for scammers, and banning them from the site, so it’s very unlikely this will happen to you. But please, if there are any signs like those above, take extra care, and please report this to our staff. Look at our scammer list

We wish you all the luck in your journey to find your soul-mate, the love of your life, your Russian Bride, marriage, and lifelong happiness.

Sincerely yours, RussianBrides.org.uk