First of all, of course, you need to register on the site. And photos speak 1000 words, so make sure you do that bit properly – get some good pictures taken with a proper camera (not low-resolution mobile phone pictures).
Be active here. Russian women like confidence and energy in a man. Keep communication going. Write letters – 40 or 50, or more. The more you communicate, the quicker you’ll find that special person who you can be comfortable with, and maybe marry!
Feel free to talk to lots of Russian Brides. There’s nothing wrong with communicating with several girls at the same time. You’re dating Russian women – find the right date – that one that talk is just effortless with, and who you know you want to talk to more.
Lots of short letters beat a few long ones – it’s closer to free and natural conversation, and as soon as you know you want to talk more, ask for a phone number. Written messages are great, but you really can’t beat true conversation.
Show interest. Everybody likes to know that somebody is interested in them. Get to know about the things that are important to your Russian Brides (Ukrainian brides). Marriage, family, relationships, children.
When you know you’ve found a girl who you want to see, then do it. Don’t waste time – that’s just back-peddling. Come to Russia. Meet your girl. Be romantic. Stay with her in a hotel, then when it feels right, stay with her at her place.
And if you had a fantastic time, don’t dawdle – arrange to meet her again. You’re here to find a bride. Marry her!
Many Russian women are beautiful, that is true. But something that appears just too good to be true, may be too good to be true. If you see a photograph that looks like it’s been taken by a professional photographer, then that’s a telltale sign.
Scammers know that we’re looking out for them. They might want you to leave the site and communicate through personal email at a very early stage. Be aware.
She’s keen to communicate over the net, but she doesn’t want to give you her phone number. Perhaps she says she doesn’t have a phone. This is a very strong sign. You should be very wary of this.
She may profess her love for you at a stage that seems way too early – perhaps even within the first two or three letters. The reality is that things take longer to build than this. Be aware of this.
Now "she" tells you that she wants to come and visit you. She might tell you the story of how her friend found her soul-mate in the UK and that she really thinks you should meet soon. She’d like to spend time with you in the UK. And she needs money for the ticket. She might even tell you she has some money, but not enough to go to Moscow, and then on to the UK. This is of course what the scam is really about: it’s about getting money out of you, and at the end of it there is no Russian Bride.
This really is rare, and we have people watching out for scammers, and banning them from the site, so it’s very unlikely this will happen to you. But please, if there are any signs like those above, take extra care, and please report this to our staff. Look at our scammer list