A realist with a positive outlook. I value honesty, care, and a good sense of humor.
你怎样描述你理想的伴侣?
Reliable, caring, with values close to mine. Not perfect, but real.
如果你知道时间在30天后终止,你愿意做什么?
I’d spend time with loved ones, watch sunsets, eat delicious food, and feel grateful for each day.
如果你有一千万美元,你打算做什么?
I’d buy a home by the sea, support people close to me, and do what I truly love.
你经常向谁请教?
I mostly trust myself, but sometimes I ask people close to me or experts.
对于同性别的人,你最看重什么品质?
The ability to support, understand, and not give unsolicited advice.
对于异性,你最看重什么品质?
When someone has clarity, a kind heart, and inner strength — you feel it right away. I value someone who walks beside me — not pulling ahead or lagging behind. We’re about the same things, even if in different ways.
你生命中最近的一次重要事件是什么,是怎样影响你的?
Led a call center for over 10 years — it was tough. A year ago, I became a product manager and finally love what I do.
你能给自己孩子最好的教诲是什么?
Don’t be afraid of mistakes. What matters is being honest with yourself and following your own path.
什么给你留下了深刻的印象或震惊?
That no one and nothing will save you — except yourself.
你最近读过的书?
Currently reading the second book from Mike Omer’s Zoe Bentley series. Recently finished The Bastard of Istanbul by Elif Shafak and When the Mountains Fall by Chingiz Aitmatov.
你现在的目标?
To create a steady, peaceful life — with work I love, a warm environment, and the feeling that I’m where I’m meant to be.
你羡慕谁?
People with inner strength and a kind heart. No drama, just quiet power.
你的朋友多吗?
I have my sister, my best friend, and my mom. That’s all I need — they’re my support and my heart.
对于同性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
When women lose themselves trying to meet others’ expectations.
对于异性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
I don’t like rudeness, abuse, or emotional instability. I avoid those who can’t listen, talk a lot but do nothing, disrespect others’ opinions, and have no drive or direction.
对于自己,你愿意改变什么?
Learning to trust myself more, take things less to heart, and just live.
你的弱点是什么?
Self-critical, tired of control, not great at asking for help.
你的强项是什么?
Strong, but soulful. Independent, yet present. I think deeply and feel subtly.
你的朋友怎么看待你?
Strong and true to herself. Honest, attentive, and a bit stubborn — in a good way.
你的熟人怎么看待你?
Probably think I’m too serious — until they get to know me better.
你最喜欢的游戏是什么?
I don’t have all-time favorite games, but with the right people, I’ll happily play Monopoly, Jenga, or something with word associations. It’s less about winning — more about laughing together.
你最喜欢的作家和诗人是谁?
I wouldn’t say I have one favorite author, but I’ve really enjoyed books by Elif Shafak, Mike Omer, Haruki Murakami, and Hiro Arikawa.
你喜欢什么音乐?
No favorite genre — I listen to everything, from silence to dance beats, depending on my mood.
你最喜欢什么食物?
I enjoy Korean, European, and Chinese cuisine — as long as it’s flavorful and not rushed.
你最喜欢的活动或爱好是什么?
I draw to be alone with myself and bring order to my thoughts when they feel chaotic. I practice yoga, go to the gym, and sometimes try voice acting — it’s a way to feel and express through my voice.
请描述你理想的伴侣.
Someone I feel calm with. Who respects, inspires, and is truly present.
你想住在哪里?
Somewhere with a warm climate, close to the sea, peaceful, safe, and full of life.